Softening With the Past

Level 4

Saying ერთი კითხვა მქონდა (I had a question) is a soft way to say you have one now.

How It Works

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ერთი კითხვა მაქვს. (I have a question.)ერთი კითხვა მქონდა. (I have a question.)
თხოვნა მაქვს. (I have a request.)თხოვნა მქონდა. (I have a favor to ask.)
დამეხმარეთ! (Help me!)ხომ ვერ დამეხმარებოდით? (Could you possibly help me?)

English does something similar with I was wondering or I wanted to ask. In Georgian, the past of მაქვს carries the same softness, but it still means now: ერთი კითხვა მქონდა is a question you want to ask today.

ხომ ვერ with the conditional is a very gentle way to ask a favor: ხომ ვერ დამეხმარებოდით? It leaves the other person an easy way to say no.

Use these with თქვენ, with staff and with people you don't know well. With friends, a plain request with გთხოვ is fine.

Examples (4)

  1. ბოდიში, ერთი კითხვა მქონდა.

    Excuse me, I have a question.

    The past მქონდა softens it.

  2. თქვენთან ერთი თხოვნა მქონდა.

    I have a favor to ask you.

    თქვენთან: with you.

  3. ხომ ვერ დამეხმარებოდით?

    Could you possibly help me?

    ხომ ვერ with the conditional.

  4. ბატონო ლევან, ერთი საქმე მქონდა.

    Mr. Levan, there's something I wanted to ask you about.

    Bringing up a matter politely.

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Softening With the PastLevel 4

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A past form softens a wish.

Words in This Pattern

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