се (повратни глаголи)
Verbs That Require Se
In Serbian, many everyday verbs—such as смејати се (to laugh), бојати се (to fear), and надати се (to hope)—require се as an inherent part of their dictionary entry. The subject is not acting upon itself; rather, се functions as an indivisible lexical marker that cannot be omitted.
How It Works
1. Lexical Meaning and Function
Verbs with obligatory се that cannot function without се with the same root meaning are known as reflexiva tantum (искључиво повратни глаголи). They primarily describe:
- Emotional states: бојати се (to fear), стидети се (to feel ashamed), надати се (to hope)
- Involuntary physiological or mental processes: смејати се (to laugh), сећати се (to remember)
- Happenings and abstract activities: догодити се / десити се (to happen), трудити се (to make an effort)
In all these verbs, се carries no reflexive object meaning (nobody is acting upon themselves). They cannot drop се in these meanings (*смејати does not exist, and бојати without се is an entirely unrelated verb meaning 'to dye / color', not 'to fear'). These pure reflexiva tantum differ from lexicalized reflexive pairs where a non-reflexive base exists but adopting се alters the lexical meaning or valency (e.g., transitive решити задатак 'to solve a task' vs. intransitive решити се 'to make up one's mind / part with something').
2. Case Government (Падежна рекција)
Because verbs with obligatory се cannot take an ordinary direct object in the bare accusative case, they govern oblique cases or prepositional phrases, most notably:
- Bare genitive complements: бојати се мрака (to fear the dark), сећати се лета (to remember summer), стидети се грешке (to be ashamed of a mistake).
- Dative complements (expressing the stimulus or object of emotion): дивити се слици (to admire the painting), ругати се одлуци (to mock the decision), смешкати се некоме (to smile at someone).
- Bare instrumental complements: бавити се спортом (to do sports), поносити се успехом (to be proud of success).
- Prepositional phrases: уздати се у помоћ (to rely on help), заљубити се у некога (to fall in love with someone).
3. Clitic Rules and Word Order
Although се belongs lexically to the verb, it is written as a separate word and behaves as an unstressed enclitic governed by clitic placement rules. It sits in the second syntactic slot rather than being glued mechanically to the verb stem:
- Он се често гласно смеје. (Subject + clitic + adverb + verb)
- Смеје се цело вече. (Verb + clitic)
4. Auxiliary Drop in the Past Tense
When forming the past tense with reflexive structures in contemporary standard Serbian, the 3rd person singular auxiliary clitic је is normally omitted (see reflexive past tense):
- Он се насмејао. (Contemporary standard — without auxiliary је)
- Ана се сетила свега. (Standard phrasing — auxiliary omitted)
Retaining је (e.g., Он се је насмејао) sounds archaic or dialectal in modern standard speech, though it can still appear in specific interrogative contexts or under strong emphatic contrast.
Examples (4)
- Надамо се добрим вестима сутра ујутру.
We hope for good news tomorrow morning.
Word by Word: Hope-we self good news tomorrow morning.
The verb 'надати се' (to hope) obligatorily requires 'се'; '*надамо добрим вестима' is ungrammatical.
- Деца су се смејала његовим шалама.
The children were laughing at his jokes.
Word by Word: Children were self laughed his jokes.
'Смејати се' (to laugh) takes 'се' as an inherent verbal marker. In the plural past tense, the auxiliary 'су' precedes 'се'.
- Он се никада није бојао висине.
He was never afraid of heights.
Word by Word: He self never not-was feared of-height.
'Бојати се' (to fear) governs the genitive case ('висине') and strictly requires 'се'.
- Пажљиво слушај да се не би догодила нека грешка.
Listen carefully so that no mistake happens.
Word by Word: Carefully listen so that self not would happened some mistake.
'Догодити се' (to happen) is an event verb where 'се' marks the intransitive lexical predicate.
Common Mistakes
Dropping 'се' because the English translation is a plain intransitive verb.
Ја често смејем када гледам комедије.Ја се често смејем када гледам комедије.English verbs like 'laugh', 'hope', or 'strive' have no reflexive element, leading learners to leave out 'се'. In Serbian, dropping 'се' makes the sentence ungrammatical because '*смејати' does not exist.
Replacing 'се' with 'себе' under the assumption that it can receive emphatic stress.
Не бојим себе мрака.Не бојим се мрака.With true reflexive verbs (e.g., 'умивати се'), 'се' represents an accusative object ('себе'). In verbs with obligatory 'се', it is merely a grammatical particle, not a direct object, so 'себе' is impossible.
Retaining the auxiliary 'је' with 'се' in the 3rd person singular past tense.
Марко се је сетио мог рођендана.Марко се сетио мог рођендана.In standard Serbian, when the clitic 'се' is used in the past tense, the third-person singular auxiliary 'је' is obligatorily dropped.
How It Connects
Learn This First
To understand verbs with obligatory 'се' (reflexiva tantum), learners need basic verb conjugation skills, familiarity with clitic positioning, and an understanding of the reflexive pronoun 'се' so they can see how these verbs differ from standard reflexive actions.
Related Patterns
- се (перфекат)Reflexive Past Tense
Explains how past-tense auxiliary clitics behave when 'се' is present, including the rule omitting auxiliary 'је' in the 3rd person singular.
Level 2 - Clitics After the First Constituent
Governs the exact second-position slot in the clause where the enclitic 'се' must appear.
Level 3 - се (безлично)Impersonal Constructions
Another grammatical structure using 'се', used to form impersonal statements rather than inherent lexical verbs.
Level 4
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Patterns that build on this one.