cho
To Give / for
Cho is one of the most essential words in Vietnamese. It primarily means to give, but it also acts as a preposition meaning for or to, and a verb meaning to let/allow.
How It Works
Here are the main ways to use cho in everyday Vietnamese:
1. As a Main Verb (To Give)
Use it when giving something to someone of equal or lower age/status.
Structure: [Subject] + cho + [Recipient] + [Object]
2. As a Preposition (For / To)
It marks the beneficiary of an action. While verbs of transfer (like đưa, gửi) can sometimes drop it, verbs like mua (buy) or làm (do) strictly require it.
Structure: [Verb] + (Object) + cho + [Person] or [Verb] + cho + [Person] + [Object]
3. As a Causative (To Let / Make)
It means granting permission, or causing something to happen. A highly common fixed phrase is cho [ai] biết (to let someone know).
Structure (To Let): cho + [Person] + [Verb]
Structure (To Make): làm (cho) (or khiến (cho)) + [Person/Thing] + [Adjective/Verb]. Note that 'cho' can often be dropped in spoken Vietnamese (e.g., làm tôi buồn).
4. Standard Requests
Starting a sentence with "Cho..." literally means "Give..." and is the standard way to order food. However, using "Cho tôi..." sounds stiff and distant in service situations. True politeness comes from using correct kinship pronouns (e.g., "Cho em..." or "Cho anh..."). For even more polite requests, add the word xin (e.g., "Cho em xin..." or "Cho mình xin..."), which translates to "May I please have...". You can also add particles like nhé or với.
5. Purpose (So that)
Used to indicate the desired result of an action. It is frequently paired with để as để cho (so that / in order to let).
Structure: [Action] + cho / để cho + [Adjective/Result]
6. To Put Into / Add
Used when adding an ingredient or putting an object somewhere.
Structure: cho + [Object] + vào + [Place]
7. To Think / Assume
Used as a verb of cognition meaning "to think that" or "to believe that". The passive form được cho là means "is considered to be" or "is said to be".
Structure: cho là / cho rằng + [Clause]
8. Threatening / Emphasizing Extremes
Placed at the end of a sentence or after a verb of harm/punishment to emphasize an undesirable result or a threat. It is also used as a general emphatic particle for extremes, often paired with lắm or vào (e.g., Đẹp cho lắm vào or Khổ cho tôi).
Structure: [Verb of harm] + cho or [Adjective/Verb] + cho + lắm / vào
9. Until / Up To
Used to mark the endpoint of time or distance.
Structure: cho đến / cho tới + [Time/Place]
10. Therefore / So
Used as a conjunction to indicate a result or conclusion.
Structure: [Cause], cho nên + [Result]
11. Softener / Favor Particle
Placed at the end of a sentence, it softens a statement or indicates that an action is being done as a favor for someone else.
Structure: [Verb] + cho
12. Benefactive Imperative
Used to ask someone to do something for you.
Structure: [Verb] + cho + tôi
13. Resignation / Settling
Used with 'rồi' to express settling for an option out of resignation.
Structure: [Action] + cho rồi
14. Emphasizing Imperatives / Extent
Used to emphasize the extent or intensity of an action, often in commands.
Structure: [Verb] + cho + [Adjective] + (vào)
15. Concession (Despite / Even if)
Used in concessive phrases to mean 'despite' or 'even if'.
Structure: mặc cho / dù cho / cho dù
16. Reversing Verbs
Adding cho before certain verbs reverses their direction, changing them from taking to giving. For example, mượn (to borrow) becomes cho mượn (to lend), and thuê (to rent) becomes cho thuê (to rent out).
Examples (6)
- Mẹ mua cho tôi một quyển sách.
Mom bought a book for me.
Word by Word: Mother buy for me one classifier book.
Used as a preposition indicating the beneficiary. Verbs like 'mua' (to buy) require 'cho', unlike verbs of transfer which can sometimes omit it.
- Cho tôi một ly cà phê đá nhé.
Please give me a glass of iced coffee.
Word by Word: Give me one glass coffee ice particle.
'Cho tôi...' literally means 'Give me...' and is standard for ordering. Adding the particle 'nhé' makes it a polite request equivalent to 'please'.
- Anh ấy được cho là người giỏi nhất.
He is considered to be the best person.
Word by Word: Older-brother that receive consider be person good most.
Used in the passive form 'được cho là' meaning 'is considered to be' or 'is said to be'.
- Cẩn thận tôi đánh cho đấy!
Be careful or I will hit you!
Word by Word: Careful I hit give particle!
Placed after a verb of harm to emphasize a threat or undesirable result.
- Tôi sẽ đợi ở đây cho đến ngày mai.
I will wait here until tomorrow.
Word by Word: I will wait at here give arrive day tomorrow.
Used as 'cho đến' (until) to mark the endpoint of time or distance.
- Để tôi làm cho.
Let me do it for you.
Word by Word: Let I do give.
Placed at the end of the sentence, 'cho' acts as a softener indicating the action is done as a favor.
Common Mistakes
Omitting 'cho' when doing something for someone.
Mẹ đọc bé sách.Mẹ đọc sách cho bé.English allows double-object sentences like 'Read the baby a book'. Vietnamese strictly requires the benefactive marker 'cho' to show who receives the action.
Using 'cho' to give a gift to an elder or teacher.
Cháu cho bà món quà này.Cháu biếu bà món quà này.'Cho' implies giving to an equal or someone of lower status. When giving to elders, using 'cho' sounds disrespectful. You must use 'biếu' (highly respectful) or 'tặng' (to gift).
Using 'cho' to mean 'for' a duration of time.
Tôi học tiếng Việt cho 3 tháng.Tôi học tiếng Việt trong 3 tháng.'Cho' translates to 'for' only when doing something FOR a person. It cannot be used for lengths of time. Use 'trong' (in/during) for time durations.
How It Connects
Learn This First
To understand 'cho', you need to be comfortable with basic Vietnamese word order and how pronouns work, as this pattern involves identifying the giver, the object, and the recipient.
- Word Order Basics
Understanding the basic Subject-Verb-Object structure is essential to see how 'cho' functions as a verb and how the indirect object is placed.
Foundations - Pronouns Come From Kinship
Since 'cho' is frequently used in social transactions (giving/doing for), knowing how to address the giver and receiver using kinship terms is necessary for natural usage.
Foundations
Related Patterns
- Verb + cho + PersonDo It for Someone
This pattern focuses specifically on using 'cho' as a preposition to do an action for someone's benefit.
Level 3 - cho + Person + NounGive Me / Let Me Have
This pattern explores the specific usage of 'cho' for making polite requests and ordering items.
Level 2 - cho + Person + VerbLet Someone Do It
This pattern details how to use 'cho' as a causative verb to grant permission or let someone do something.
Level 3 - để choSo That
Combines 'để' and 'cho' to express purpose, meaning 'so that' or 'in order to allow'.
Level 4
Learn Next
Patterns that build on this one.
- cho nênSo / ThereforeLevel 1
- Verb + giúp / hộ / giùmDo It for MeLevel 2
- nữaMore / AnotherLevel 2
- cho đến khiUntilLevel 3
- làm choMake It HappenLevel 3
- cho rằngHold the View ThatLevel 4
- suy cho cùngWhen All Is Said and DoneLevel 5
- cho biếtSaid (News Attribution)Level 6
And 1 more in the full list.