maar (Softener)

Maar as a Softener

Level 3

Kom maar in. (Go ahead, come in.) Ek sal maar wag. (I'll just wait.) Inside a sentence, maar softens.

How It Works

1. Two different maars. At the start of a clause, maar means but. Inside a sentence, it is a particle that changes the tone.

2. Friendly permission. In a command, maar means "go ahead, feel free":

  • Kom maar in. (Come on in.)
  • Sit maar jou tas hier neer. (Just put your bag down here.)
  • Jy kan maar gaan. (You can go now.)

3. Calm acceptance. Maar can show that you accept a situation:

  • Ek sal maar wag. (I'll just wait.)
  • Dis maar hoe dit is. (That's just how it is.)

4. Only, just. Maar can make something seem small: Dit was maar 'n klein foutjie. (It was only a small mistake.)

5. Where it goes. Put maar after the verb and before a separable prefix or the end of the sentence: Kom maar in.

Tip: maar often joins other particles, as in maar net. See stacking particles.

Examples (6)

  1. Kom maar in.

    Come on in.

    Word by Word: Come MAAR in.

    Maar turns the command into friendly permission.

  2. Ek sal maar wag.

    I'll just wait.

    Word by Word: I shall MAAR wait.

  3. Dis maar hoe dit is.

    That's just how it is.

    Word by Word: It's MAAR how it is.

  4. Sit maar jou tas hier neer.

    Just put your bag down here.

    Word by Word: Put MAAR your bag here down.

  5. Jy kan maar gaan.

    You can go now.

    Word by Word: You can MAAR go.

  6. Dit was maar 'n klein foutjie.

    It was only a small mistake.

    Word by Word: It was MAAR a small mistake.

Common Mistakes

  • Putting maar first when you mean "go ahead".

    Maar kom in!
    Kom maar in!

    At the start, maar means but. To give friendly permission, put maar after the verb.

  • Putting maar after the separable prefix.

    Kom in maar.
    Kom maar in.

    Maar goes before the separable prefix in, which stays at the end.

How It Connects

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Learn This First

Maar can also soften a command or statement.

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