אין לי מה / אין לי עם מי
Having Nothing or Nobody for an Action
אין לי מה לומר means I have nothing to say. אין לי עם מי לדבר means I have nobody to speak with.
How It Works
A Missing Option
אין לי מה לומר says that I have nothing to say. אין לנו איפה לשבת says that we have nowhere to sit. The word after the ל-form names what is unavailable; the infinitive names the action.
A Person and Their Role
אין לי עם מי לדבר names a missing person to speak with. Keep עם because the relationship is לדבר עם, to speak with. אין לי למי לכתוב names a missing person to write to.
Who Has No Option?
לי concerns me, while לנו concerns us. These are statements about an available thing, place, or person. The question words appear inside the statement; they do not turn it into a direct question.
Examples (4)
- אין לי מה לומר.
I have nothing to say.
מה לומר names unavailable content.
- אין לי עם מי לדבר.
I have nobody to speak with.
עם מי preserves the companion relationship.
- אין לנו איפה לשבת.
We have nowhere to sit.
The phrase names a missing location.
- אין לי למי לכתוב.
I have nobody to write to.
למי names the missing recipient.
Common Mistakes
Removing the with relationship from the missing conversation partner.
אין לי מי לדבר.אין לי עם מי לדבר.The intended talk-with partner requires עם מי.
How It Connects
Learn This First
Combine absence with a question word and an infinitive activity or participant relation.
- The Infinitive
Combine absence with a question word and an infinitive activity or participant relation.
Level 2 - לי / לך / לוTo Me and to You
Combine absence with a question word and an infinitive activity or participant relation.
Level 2 - מי / מהWho and What
Combine absence with a question word and an infinitive activity or participant relation.
Level 1 - יש לי / אין ליSaying What You Have
Combine absence with a question word and an infinitive activity or participant relation.
Level 1